Sunday, December 12, 2010

Question from Jennaismyname

I like the new look, but it is hard to acess the old pages because you have to tap through every page. Can you please fix this? Thanks for all your advice!

Weezy: Make sure you are clicking on “Browse Advice Here” and not the “Backup Advice Server.” We put that up when Tumblr went down. It is not currently up to date. So, to make sure you can see every question, just touch the choice that reads: “Browse Advice Here.”

Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Question from Jessica

My friends and I went to a slumber party and we prank called people. She prank called this guy I kind of like and she started cussing at him and then she txted him and said that I loved him which isn’t really true and she voice mailed and told him to stop flirting with me. She told me to put make up on so he would like me more but my mom doesn’t let me. She also keeps telling me to ask him out, but I’m not sure if I completely really like this guy. My other friend is going to ask him if he likes me tomorrow. I am hoping he will say yes so I can ask him out.

Weezy: I really don’t know what to make of this question. Do you know if you like him or not? Because if you don’t, please don’t let your friends push you into something you’re not ready to do. And even if he does like you, he should be asking you out.

Furthermore… The friend who prank called him and cussed at him… Not cool. She needs to tone it all down. She is being obnoxious on your behalf and you are allowing it. You do not need to have your friends texting, phoning and scolding guys for you and coaxing you into wearing make up and asking guys out. Grow up at your own pace.

Comment from Bookmark

Hey!!!!! I would just like to say thanks for answearing my and my friend’s question! And also thanks for the comment!! I think I might when I’m older!!!! Anyway thanks agian!!!

Weezy: OK, wonderful.

Question from Makynzie

I want to pierce my lip, but my family is going to criticize me about it, im allowed too.. but, I don’t know what they’ll say. Do you think I should?

Weezy: I am not a fan of piercing any part of the mouth. Our mouths are too important to pierce, in my opinion.

If you want to do a piercing that is a little edgy, I would go with the belly button or the upper ear. You speak with your mouth and you eat with your mouth and so much of your personality emanates forth from your mouth.

When you are interacting with someone, the focus is on the mouth and the eyes. I would not pierce anything that distracts from who you actually are. You are not a piercing. A piercing is meant to punctuate who you are or season who you are. It is not the entire recipe.

Question from Maya

“This survey, that I now take every day, helps me reflect on my troubles, worries and ME! It really helps.” I also wanted to ask you if you could put up a survey of your self.”

Weezy: By “Survey” do you mean the Diary Questions? I hope you are not taking the survey every day! That would get boring.

If you mean, the Diary questions, I would be happy to answer the for you here. That would be quite fun.

Question from The Twig Girl

Well, everyone tells me I’m pretty and they’re so jealous and all that. Well the thing is, I don’t think I’m pretty at all. I’m super skinny and people say I’m a twig. My nose is big and ugly and from the side it looks HORRIBLE! And I guess I’m not the healthiest person out there. I HATE MILK! I’ll eat cheese once in a while but not all the time and I’ll only dunk my cookies and eat cereal with milk but I won’t actually drink it. What can I do to get healthier? I don’t really eat fruit and vegetables and all that. And what can I do to fix my ugly nose?! Ugh I hate it sooo mucccchhhh I just want to rip it off my face Lol! And I don’t think I’m the prettiest of all girls. its just weird how everyone says that becuase I never thought I was. (I’m in 7th grade.)

Weezy: I think you may have a distorted image of yourself. It’s a good idea to work on that now while you are still in 7th grade.

If you do not believe it when people are telling you that you are pretty, it’s almost as if you are accusing them of lying. You need to take in the comment, allow your mind to absorb it and say, “Thank you.” It’s OK for you to feel awkward and insecure at your age, but there needs to be a part of you that knows you really are pretty and you are just waiting for your perception to catch up with the reality. You are going to become a beautiful woman. You just are.

As for your nose. Clearly you are the only one who is noticing it. If it is still bothering you when you turn 18 or 21, you can have it surgically altered, however I would prefer that you wait to grow into your nose and your image of your nose before you have anyone take a knife to it. Your nose is probably just perfect for your face. You just need to stop judging it so harshly.

When you say that you want to rip it off your face, I get the feeling that you are not angry at your nose, you are angry at yourself and I am not sure why. That’s something you need to explore.

Eat as many fruits and vegetables as you can, whether you like them or not and get used to the idea that you are pretty and that maybe you should start to believe it.

Question from Cassandra

Hi Louise!!!!!!! I love your advice!!!!!!! Anyways, we just got a new seating plan in French. This kid (David) is sitting beside me. When our teacher called out his name to sit beside me (he chooses randomly) another kid shouted out ” oooohhhhh David!!!” Could that mean anything? I love your advice and THANK YOU SO MUCH!!!!!!! Keep on rocking!!!!!!

P.S. I think that if I went to school with you (when you were a kid) I would choose to be your friend!!!!!!! :)

Weezy: That is awesome. Me too! Thank you. As for David, I think it could mean that people know that you like him or that people know that he likes you or better yet, both! It certainly isn’t a bad thing. I hope it made you smile.