Heyy!! Me agian!!! I just love asking questions don’t I? Anyway. my friend has a crush, but her crush (I’m going to call him J) has a girlfriend (let’s call her T) so t says I’m never going to break up with j. I told my friend to wait cause we are in grade 7 and it’s not going to last forever. Buy she wants your advice on what to do. So plzzzz help me!
Weezy: Your advice is EXCELLENT! She needs to wait. Any victory that comes as a result of behavior which shames us is empty and hollow.
She may think she wants to break them up, but she does not. For many reasons. Top among them are: 1) Even if she “wins” him, how will she know for sure that he is over T? 2) Does she really want a guy that may leave her the way she wants him to leave T? and 3) If she lets their relationships take its natural course and he then finds himself falling for her, she will know that he is truly choosing her on his own and not because she forced something to happen that was not ready to happen 4) Girl Code. We don’t do that to fellow females. We don’t “steal” their men.
Tell her she can be warm and friendly and easy to talk to, etc. But she needs to respect the relationship.
You should have your own column!
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