Helloo:) last September I went out with one of my best friends for almost three months. We broke up because I was getting teased at school for going out with him. I know I shouldn’t have let it get to me but in that moment it did, and I broke up with him. Three weeks afterwards he went out with a friend of mine. At the time I didn’t mind. Now though, whenever we talk and are friendly to each other I miss him. I’ve told him this and told him I can’t be friends with him, but I still miss him. I’ve had other relationships since, and he’s still going out with my friend. What should I do? (sorry it’s long I tend to go on a bit)
Weezy: You’ve been honest with him and that’s the best thing. As long as he is dating someone else, you need to respect that. I understand that you miss him but your current choices are to either be friends with him, understanding that he is in a relationship or to not be friends with him.
I hope you have learned not to succumb to peer pressure when it comes to matters of the heart. (or other matters, for that matter) You have no idea how it hurt him when you broke up with him for this reason.
Knowing that you still have feelings for him, he may one day be ready to rekindle your relationship, but you will just have to be patient and understand that what happened happened and he is with somebody else right now.
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