I recently started talking to my ex again. (we stopped talking cuz, well let's just say too much drama.) we constantly text each other. He always tells my bestfriend i lost my chance with him. (everyone he dates always breaks his heart) he rarely goes back to his exes. Anyways he texted me last night asking to go to the movies with him and this other guy. I said no. And he supposedly got sad. Last week he asked me if I can stop flirting in front of him cuz it hurts him. (his 3 best friends like me) and I told him that they flirt with me! And he said "I know. I told them if they could stop." I'm like, "okay I'll stop flirting in front of you." I only said that because I felt bad. But he has the nerve to tell me not to flirt in front of him when he does the same thing with my two best friends. Let's call them. N & E. (for safety reasons) What should I do? Or say to him. Cuz I want to know how he feels about me. I really like him still, but I took a step to be his friend instead of saying I like him again. And I don't get why me flirting with other people would hurt him cuz he dumped me last. (we went out 3 times over an 8 month period.
Weezy: You and this guy have a complicated history and relationship. You both still have feelings for one another and being "just friends" is going to be difficult for both of you.
It's time for a conversation. Not just texts back and forth, mixed with awkward flirtations with each other's friends. I'm not sure why you have been so "on again, off again," but while you are not dating, a "no flirting" policy will be difficult to enforce.
I think he still has feelings for you and you clearly still have feelings for him, so you two may be an "all or nothing" couple, meaning, you are either dating, or you can not be friends. It will be too painful. So, it's time to figure out what you want to be.
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